Should I Stay or Go?
Helping professional Christian women recognize, recover & rebuild their lives after narcissistic abuse
“For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, highminded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God; Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.”2 Timothy 3:2 (NKJV)
Does the scripture above sound like your marriage partner? If so, then you are most certainly being abused on some level, while at the same time trying to gain clarity on the overarching question: “Should I stay or go?” Perhaps you’re wondering if you should stick it out until the kids are grown, until you get your finances in order, until you’re stronger emotionally and physically. OR should you begin creating an exit strategy now? Maybe you think the problem rests solely on you. Many women in abusive relationships believe this lie.
These are tough questions with no easy answers. Whatever you do – PLEASE don’t lose heart. There is help available, and there is a way out, if you choose to go that route. Believe me when I say: “I know how you feel and what you’re going through. It’s an extremely heartbreaking and confusing place to be in. My heart goes out to you and I want to help.
I know what it’s like to be in a toxic marriage, which is why I would love to share my insights and experiences with you now that I’m on the other side of all the chaos and confusion. By now, I’m sure you’ve come to the conclusion that no one understands what you’re going through unless they’ve been through it themselves. In fact, you’ve probably stopped trying to explain it to others, since you can’t quite articulate what’s happening yourself.
If this is you, click here to set up a discovery call with me. Also, I’d love for you to join my private Facebook group – THE TOXIC RELIEF ROOM – where you can ask questions and gain valuable insight and support from women who are in similar situations. You DO NOT deserve the treatment you are receiving. God does not want you to be unhappy in your marriage. Let’s work together to get your life back on track. Much love to you…
Holly Roylance (Narcissistic Abuse Educator, FDN, Christian Minister)